This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. My Lady(5/13/66)& I have been together since May of this year. We both are known for cheating on our past lovers but since we have been together neither one of have cheated...or even wanted to. I guess the biggest question on my mind is...Do you see us having a lifelong relationship together?
A. Well, the tarot cards seems to say "yes" -It is what you both desire (the two of cups). Lucky gals! Good luck to you.
Q. is it possible at all !! for an aries and a cancer to have a long relationship? My girl is such an aries i want to smack her...she can be so insensative!! such a dyke!! anyway...help help!! ps. i'm a whiny cancer...cant do anything but at least i'm not all talk and no action like aries!!! huh! thanks!
A. Is it possible indeed! We'd better check out both your venus signs (how we express love) and your moons (how we express our emotions). You have moon in cancer - a double cancer! But you have your venus in gemini which matches quite nicely to your lovergrrl's robust aries sun. You can give as good as you get, babe. Venus in Gemini is a lusty placement but you could have a wandering eye which drives your Ram gal crazy. It can be electric. Why ask why? Just enjoy!
Q. I am shy and quite. How can I get people to notice me and stop being so shy. My friends aren't nice to me because of it.
A. Do you mean to say that your friends are not nice to you because you are shy? You have sun in aquarius, moon in scorpio, mercury in aquarius, venus in aries and mars in aries. Aquarians are fairly opinated as as Areis. With sun and mercury in aquarius, your basic personality and the way you think and communicate are open, loud, proud and independent as heck. With mars and venus in aries, you take no prisoners whether in love or war. That doesn't seem shy to me!I think that you can be very independent and possibly pushy (not that that is bad...) but maybe in order to win friends and influence people, you should learn to listen more. Run with the herd, don't always try to lead it. Just my opinion...
Q. Is anyone going to ask me out this month?
A. Gosh I love these easy questions: My magic 8 ball says "So it shall Be" which translates into, "Make it Happen, Girl". Amen!
Q. Me & my ex whose birthday is December 16 1972 are in an open relationship right now, and she knows I want it to be a serious and comitted one. Problem is she also wants a relationship with her son's father and he just wants to be just friends. She says that she could be happy with me but she could also be happy with him. So my question is, will she ever comitte herself into a serious relationship with me, and if so when?
A.Well, according to the tarot cards, it can happen. Maybe not in the next year, but the glorious Sun card came up (your big wish) so I think the chances are good in the long term. However, the moon (disillusion) and the Hanged man (being in a rut, in suspension) also popped up. Delays, but ultimate success. Can you be patient?
Q. i had a major break up at the beginning of the year (new years day, no less)(ex gf 09/28/1973) and began a rebound relationship about 3 months later (04/26/1966). I knew the rebound f**k wasn't likely to last, but i went and fell for the grrrl anyway. now that relationship too appears over. is there any point hoping that this relationship might reignite, will i meet someone else soon or should i just be happy to have some time on my own?
A. Whew! It does sort of sound like you could use some quiet time, but let's check the tarot cards anyway. The cards seem to suggest that there is a possibility of new romance within the next six months. It will be your decision (The Lovers card) and maybe through work (5 of Pentacles). In the meantime, use the next month or so to chill out.
Q. I have fallen in love with my friend (7 oct 1962) who is 20 years older than me. She has feelings for me but already has a gf and also feels the age difference could be a problem. Will we be able to be more than friends, continue our friendship or will our feelings end up ruining the friendship?
A. The tarot cards indicate that, normally, there would be a good chance of a closer relationship developing between the two of you. The 5 of cups is romance and the 5 or swords shows overcoming difficulties. However, the six of swords shows that there is a fear of being reckless and the Hanged Man shows indecision - not a good sign. How about letting the friendship continue along and you keep your eyes open for the next wonderful woman to come along. I see her in the distance....
Q. A few months ago, I met a girl with whom I fell head over heals. We dated for about two week and then she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship. I can't stop thinking about her up until today. Tonight, I gave her a cal and left her a message. Is it possible that we will ever get back together. My birthdat is 21/12/81 and hers is 1/12/81. Thx.
A. I checked out the tarot cards and, while nothing is carved in stone, there appears to be some pretty strong problems with this relationship (The Devil card came up). They are problems that you can see and in seeing them, you two can solve them, but it takes two to do it. Is she up to it? There also appears to be losses associated with this relationship. How much are you prepared to give up? PS. Is there a child involved?
Q. well i have this friend who is one year younger than me (6 april 86) who i have a crush on, and she did seem to flirt back when i did, but there are times when it appears that she doesn't like me back. Does she or NOT? will we have a chance together? and any chance for love in the future?
A. The tarot cards say that there is definitely some spark here! The six of cups is romance! But this gal is not easy - you will expend a great amount of time, energy and effort to snag her. Are you up for a hunt?
Q. Hi, I was wondering if I am going to further my career as an entertainer promoter/manager and also, if I'm going to remain with my partner of 6yrs, she is 3/11/72. I've been having mixed feelings for a while and would like some answers. Thank You for your time.
A. You are in the middle of your Saturn Return - a three year period from ages 27-30 when you want change but nothing happens either fast enough or correctly. There is great stress. Note: anything begun during the return tends not to last so any changes you make, may be just a stepping stone. Your return is over on your 30th birthday -then all your answers and successes will come to you. Promise. In the meantime, keep on plugging - you are learning what you need to do to make your success.
Q. whats my future? i mean ....is there something exciting? my life is too dull! some romance? waiting for it. please suggest me something?
A. Ho ho ho - the cards say romance is in the air! The Star (promising developments)is coupled with the 3 of Cups - a happy union. Make haste, girlfriend!
Q. Oh great and glorious madam, I ask you to consult the cards for I am uncertain. I met an amazing girl a few years back through my work and we have kept in touch through e-mail because we both live in different cities. I have always valued our friendship and we really click on so many levels. Lately our correspondance has become very intimate and we are considering moving to the same city for different reasons. I know it will be at least another year before this can possibly happen, so my question is...if there something there that's real or is this simply a cyberillusion? There is a considerable age difference here. It doesn't bother either of us, but when I've mentioned our "friendship" to my friends they think there's no way because of this and I get upset at their assumptions.
A. Although the cards say that there is a bit of illusion here and that in the long run it may not last (8 of pentacles), I DO see an older, more sophisticated and tough woman (the Queen of Swords) alongside the love and romance card (6 of
cups). I see the spark. Will it fizzle out? Ignite it to see.
Q. i actually asked you a question in july... but now things have changed considerably and i wanted to ask another one... sometimes even just forming the problem into a question is therapeutic... so, then my g-thang and i were on the rocks, now we are completely seperated and not speaking at all. i know this is what i need right now, but i feel as if no one will ever measure up to her and i want to know whether it will happen for us again. the relationship ended badly, but it was a total jekyll and hyde on her part (i know it's not that simple, but you know what i mean). i miss her very much. her b-day is 4-2-78. we are also geographically challenged.
A. Ah, sadly it's never that simple... I asked the cards if this relationship can be saved and they seem to say "yes" but it may take a while. The Hanged Man indicates delays because the situation is in suspension. But the Empress cards is love and fertility and the six of cups is love and romance. Can't be bad! Try to be patient.
Q. I've been away from guys for about a year, going to a girl's school. But at the beginning of the year I switched back to public, both gender school. Last year, I started wondering about my sexual tendencies, and I was pretty convinced and comfortable about being a dyke. But now I'm confused - I'm worried that word will get out at my new school. What do you see in the cards for me?
A. You have sun in scorpio - scorpios are strong folks who can be very strategic and protective of themselves. I have no doubt that you will soon know who you are and what you need to do. You also have mars and venus in independent sagittarius. Your actions and love nature are confident and strong. I think that you will be just fine and know just what to do.
Q. I've been monogamous with my partner for almost 5 years. now I'm wanting to be non-monogamous but am unsure if this is worth losing her for. I've already got the eye on 2 others (an ex, Leo; and a new girl, Cancer). i do love my girlfriend but I feel our relationship has become stagnant and our identities somewhat muddled by the whole "couple" thing. I've been non-monogamous before but not with someone I'd been monogamous with for such a long time. eeeek! advice please, madam. I beg of you.....
A. Madam Lichtenstein sees you taking an irrevocable step here. You are in the middle of your Saturn Return - a three year period of stress, frustration and desire for change for ages 27-30. You want things that are either difficult or risky to go for and, once achieved, not that particularly satisfying. Breaks now can become permanent. You have moon in pisces and venus in taurus - obviously you place a great emphasis on romance and sex in a relationship. My advice is to give your current partner a chance to liven things up with you. Talk to her or strongly hint hint hint your desires. What have you got to lose?
Q. Recently I've made some wonderfully positive changes in my life...moved to a larger city and found a new career that I think I will love. However, there is one thing that has been bothering me for ages....eons even. At 28 I have yet to experience a relationship...even one that is not so serious. I came out 9 years ago and I thought things might change at that point (I dated only once before coming out), but it seems I'm destined to be single.....? I am an intelligent, independent woman and I can think of no reason why this should be so. Is there something inherently wrong that I can change, or should I get fitted for a habit and learn to play guitar?
A. I checked your astrological planet placements and see absolutely nothing wrong. You have sun in virgo - a bit of perfectionist.... Moon in aquarius - can be a bit distant. You love people but may have trouble settling on one particular woman - or at least give the appearance of being a bit unapproachable. Venus in leo - gracious, confident and generous in love, but you may need an adoring audience to get you going. My humble advice: don't seek the perfect woman, don't expect her to be your booster all the time and don't be afraid of jumping head first into a relationship. (Hey, some of us like it that way :-) ) Seek and ye shall find, sister....
