This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. I have this high school friend (or aquantance is more like it) that i haven't seen in 2 years. I've tried to keep in contact but whenever i try to get together with her she always has something else to do. I've had the longest crush on her, which she knows, and i just can't seem to get my mind off of her... will anything happen between us? Her bday is 7/30/81. Another thing, I've met someone special but I doubt that anything will happen between us as well, is there anything to look forward to... is she a pontential lover? Her bday is 3/1/78... or should i just forget about both of them and move on? Thanks.
A. Well I see that you have your moon in mutable Sagittarius which means that you can easily give your heart to several babes at once so your question about two women at once is not out of the question....Question one- your high school friend. The tarot cards say forget about her. There is something about her that will prove to be disappointing to you. She may be who you want now, but that will soon change.
Question two - the special someone Now THIS has the makings of a beautiful friendship. It will be new and fresh beginnings! The tarot has spoken.
Q. im a feb baby and have never had a chance at romance or to persue my singing career. I have so many questions but ill only ask two. My question is, will i be able to become a back up singer or better and do i have a chance in finding that perfect women to take to my senior prom this year? Will i find her before November?
A. The tarot cards indicate that your career plans may be "on hold" for a while. It seems that there is a decision that you need to make before you can go forward (The Hanged Man card). But you will find a woman who will be a wonderful partner for you - she is beautiful, creative and compatible with you. Maybe you put aside your singing plans for her? Hmmmm.
Q. I wrote a couple of WNBA players letters. I've got really big crushes on both of them, and I'd really like to know them better. Will they respond to my letters? And is their a possibility that we would be friends or more?
A. I checked the tarot on these questions because they are basically Yes/No s. Will they respond to your letters? The cards say "yes" after a small delay. (Well it will seem like a long time for you, but it will happen) Will you become friends. Uhhh it doesn't seem so according to the Tarot cards. Fear of recklessness (6 of swords), Legal issues (Justice card) may indicate that getting to really know the fans may be considered risky business by the players. Actually it seems to make sense. But a girl can dream, can't she?
Q. I am wanting to change jobs, but the market in my area is slow. I have spoke to someone who stated they may be hiring. Wondering what those chances may be? I have approximately 24 years of experience in a similar field
A. The tarot reveals great success in this endeavor! Wow - some great cards- Ace of Cups - wonderful, lovely news. Wheel of Fortune - good luck The Chariot - success in your endeavor by your own great efforts Ah, but the Temperance Card indicates delays of six months to 2 years in your plans. Patience, Sarah! It is coming and you will make it happen!
Q. What do I do if I was with a guy for two months and he got me pregnant then left me? He don't even call me anymore. He said that he wanted to be there. I have'nt heard from him. I need some positive advice! thank you!
Q. Will I be friend with Tan Pei Qing my classmate I amire her a lot but she does not like me and has been saying bad things about me in my class we are of the same sex
A. I am not sure why you would strive to be friends with someone who has been saying bad things about you, but I asked the tarot cards anyway if there was a chance you two could become friends. The cards indicate that there may be something you are doing that is causing this irritation (2 of pentacles and the Ace of Swords). Step back and see if you can figure out if you are contributing to the stress. The 9 of swords also poped up which indicates an extremely long waiting time for resolution to the problem - and nothing you can do to move it along. I suggest that you step back and take a breather. Be open and nice, if you can and want to be, and eventually, eventually it can get better.
Q. My butch dyke girlie beat me up. I got 'er thrown in jail. Now my old femme dyke is back and I wanna know if we should hook up. She's pretty rad, but quite a bit differn't than I am. We were together for a year and a half, and things were good and bad, but differences forced us apart, and into butch dykes arms. Opinions?
A. Opinion? Oy! Good news that you wouldn't stand for someone beating you up. Now on to your fem: The cards say, "oh yeah!" The 9 of cups popped up and it is your wish card - I think you wish for her.... Also seen is the Knight of Cups - discussions of love. Sometimes you need a breather from a relationship to really appreciate its good points. Maybe this is one of those cases.
Q. My ex (7-5-65)and I are considering getting back together. Is this a good idea? Will we ever be able to sustain a long-term commitment without getting stagnant? If so, can we share a home or is it better we live apart and independently?
A. I think the real question is, do YOU want to get back together. The tarot cards suggest that there is someting holding you back - a giving up (or taking away) of something. You are about to turn 30 - happy birthday! The 30th birthday marks the end of your Saturn Return - a three year period of turmoil and stress. I would say that about a month from now, you will know what and who you want. That is when the return totally clears.So you decide, sister.
Q. I have this friend who has been having lesbian tendencies with her friend...she thinks that I do not know about them...so thinking that she would understand my situation, I told her about this girl trying to get fresh with me(before that she didn't know about me being a lesbian),that's when I told her that I liked girls. She has been avoiding me, a.k.a. thinking that I'm gonna jump on her like some uncivilized iced age male *haha* so I wrote her a letter and she wrote back and was very upset and defensive so I wrote the same back because I was so hurt...her other friend read her letter and wrote me a threat one making like they're "normal" whatever the hell that is and told me to fuck off...what pisses me off is that they're being so fake and can't even admit it when everyone @ school already witnessed their love for one another. They're lesbos in hiding and it makes me sick that they're attacking me for being IT. I just wanted to know if there's any chance of! us working our shattered friendship out. My friend is a Libra(10/3) and her "girlfriend" is a Gemini-my wrong twin, I say(6/13) and we're all juniors in high school.
A. Dear K, You know, the tarot cards say "yes" that you will be able to repair your shattered friendships. I ask "why would you want to"? But to each her own. The Tarot cards say that it is your wish (nine of cups) to be a partner with them (three of wands) and things will move in a positive direction to that aim in the near future (five of pentacles and the seven of cups). It sounds to me that if that is what you want, you will have it.
Q. Oh- great and beautiful one, I am in a slightly unhappy situation. I know I am a bit young, but I am so sad that I am single and have been since my last relationship ended with her cheating on me. It wasn't exactly a self esteem booster, but, I do have a small request, oh light of my life. Could you please tell me if I'm going to find someone soon? I am so hopelessly single, and would GREATLY appreciate an answer. Thank you SO much for your wisdom!
A. Flattery will get you everywhere. However, I think you will have to wait a little longer for that perfect woman to sweep you off your feet. The tarot cards indicate what we call "negative waiting time" - the 9 of swords. Negative because you want it to move much faster but there is nothing you can do to move events faster. So please be patient. She is there - I see her in the Empress card which also popped up. But it will take you longer than you feel you can wait. My advice - keep looking, remain optimistic and be patient.
Q. I've been with my lady 8 months. She's 46, I'm 29. We live 1 and 1/2 hours apart in Essex England. We love each other very much. Do you think our love will last? Are we destined to live together?
A. The tarot cards say that this will definitely work out, but not immediately. There are wonderful cards here - The 3 of cups - a happy partnership, The Wheel of Fortune - good luck, the 5 of cups - romance. But there are also dleay cards - the Hanged Man - you are in a rut and must make a decision to do something. Nothing moves until you decide. And the 9 of swords - negative waiting time that simply must be waited out - nothing you can do to move tings along. So it will happen, but you have to be patient and then make a decision at the appropriate time. Good luck to you for future love and happiness!
Q. Will I ever loose weight?
A. My Magic 8 ball says "Positively" - Are you working on it??
Q. Madame, I need your help. I'm bisexual, but I haven't come out to anyone yet. I want to know if there's a girlfriend in the near future for me, and if so, who is she? Do I already know her? How fast will the relationship progress, and will it work out? I'd greatly appreciate your help.
A. Well the tarot cards indicate that it will take longer than 6 months to find her. The Hanged Man card suggests that youneed to make a decision in order to go forward. If you haven't come out yet, it will be hard to meet her. However, I think she may be in the legal profession and she is very pretty. (Queen of Cups and The Justice card popped up) so I think it may be time to take a step forward.
Q. so i seem to have fallen for an aquarian(jan28,1979) who lives on the otherside of the country. is there any chance of us living in the same city and making it work?
A. The cards say "yes" but not without some losses (property losses like maybe some lost rent deposits etc). So what? I see the 3 of cups - a great partnership and the five of cups - romance. Drink from the cups!
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend (4/20/74) about a month ago partly due to ex drama and distance problems. She's moving back to my area in october and I wanted to know if we're going to get back together and if it will be a lasting relationship.
A. I combined your question and asked if you would get back into a lasting relationship with her. The tarot cards indicate that there is a possibility of a wonderful relationship (The Empress card) but it comes with a bit of stress (Ace of Swords). How much are you willing to put up with, Sarah? The drama may continue but I believe that true love conquers all. Buy a crate of aspirin just in case...
Q. Okay...I'm in love with my best friend (birthdate: 02/02/83, not sure about the time). We "went out" for maybe a week before she broke it off because I was going away to college. She said that she "can't do the long distance thing." I completely understood where she was coming from with that and am more than glad to have her in my life as best friend (as opposed to nothing at all). I am in love with her, but I get so frustrated. She tells me that she loves me (in her words, "I love you so much...you don't even know) and that she misses all of the fun (i.e. being close, signs of affection) we had together. Every time she talks about me with someone (I hear this either through her or through our mutual friends), she makes it quite clear that I am her best friend and that she "loves [me] soooo much." It's confusing me because I'm getting mixed signals. Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks for your time and energy.
A. I pulled five cards from the tarot deck thinking aobut what your best friend really thinks about you and your relationship. I DO see thoughts of love (Knight of Cups) and a feeling of harmony, beauty and deep commitment (The Empress) but the center of the reading is the 8 of Swords - losses beyond one's control. I think that she is afraid of losing you. You know, when we go off to college, meet new people and expand horizons, it is very possible that we can forget the woman back home. Maybe that is her fear and she is protecting herself from possible painful loss. It's something to think about and maybe to talk to her about. I hope it can work out!
Q. what is going to happen in my future love life?
A. Oh Stephanie,
I see you getting your big wish (The Sun) in the next six months. I see romance (5 of cups) and an unusual lover - someone either much older, younger, different religion, race or simply quite different in background from you. Keep your eye out for her!
Q. I want to know if my friend is bi-sexual or bi-curious and if she wants me. Her birthday is in October.
A. The real question is whther she wants you - eh? The tarot cards do not show passion but show an appreciation (4 of wands). Sigh; these Libras are always in the middle of the road! Maybe try and veer her into your ditch.....
Q. will i find someone in the next couple of months?
A. The tarot cards say that you will definitely find someone in the next six months (WHeel of Fortune card). It may not be a long term relationship (8 of pentacles), but what a way to go! Get Out there and look for her!
Q. I met this girl (jan 31, 1974) about a month ago and I have developed a big crush on her. She's cute, fun and we have a lot in common. Most things I have read say aquarians and taureans don't make good matchs. What do you think about that and what do the tarrot cards say?
A. Venus, the planet of love and the moon, how we express our emotions, are also indicators of compatibility in addition to sun signs. SO you have sun in taurus, venus in aries and the moon in capricorn. She has sun in aquarius (great for your aries venus), venus in capricorn (hmm - a good match to your moon) and moon in taurus (so how about your sun). Sounds like a match made in the stars! Not that I'm plugging my astrology book, but you can get a great description of love natures and very topline compatibilities in my book "HerScopes; A Guide to Astrology for Lesbians". Okay, I'm plugging. Sorry...
Q. Will the 11/12/66 person that had to have me but then went back with the love befor me,get away from this 3/7/ person? or are they ment to be together? We still talk and she calls me and tells me how much she miss me and loves me and at frist it seemed that she had just made a mistake but now they just seem like words that dont mean anything to her just a way to keep me hangin No one thinks that things will work with these two people and I truely care for her very deeply but i dont want to play #2 in her heart so pleaes tell me what the cards say
A. Your 11/22/66 person has venus in sagittarius (unable to commit to one person in love and will probably remain single and fancy free for a good portion of her life) and moon in pisces (hopelessly romantic but can be a bit fickle - can easily handle several lovergrrls at once.) Oy vay! Talk about not being able to make a decision and able to handle more than one babe at a time! My advice - try to make her jealous. It will get her to you in the short term, but she may be hard to hold. The tarot cards confirm!
Q. where and when will i find a girlfriend and who will she be?
A.The tarot cards say that you can meet someone special in 6 months. SHe is a wonderful match for you and she will help you overcome difficulties. However I also see you being in a rut. Remember - you have to get out there and look for her - she is not going to just ring your doorbell. Happy hunting!
Q.Hoping whether u could help me out. I just broke up a few months back with my gf. Still feeling the loss, but hoping that I might one day meet up with my soulmate. While in my uni years in Australia, I had this crush on my journalism tutor! I don't know her birthdate but was wondering whether u could see if there is any possibility of us being together.
A. Tutor eh? The tarot cards actually say yes. Hmmm.....!
Q. Oh wise one~ well, I've been with my boyfriend for well neigh six years now, and his love grows stronger and stronger, and yes, I love him to, but I'm torn while I struggle consistently with the nagging itch in the back of my mind that wonders if I shouldn't be with a girl--I can't seem to stop lusting and crushing after them! Currently, there is a knock-out blonde with a checkered past that I can't stop daydreaming about. She is a terrible flirt and we really seem to have hit it off--the energy between us is certainly fraught with some kind of tension or anticipation, but I'm not sure where she plants her tulips, if ya get my drift. Not that I'm real clear on that one either. Where am I heading????
A. Oh where are you heading indeed! You don't need a weatherman to tell you which way the wind blows and I suspect you don't need a tarot reader to tell you how your love flows. While the cards indicate that this blond may not end in true love, (the cards actually indicate some frustration here...) the cards DO indicate that you need to reach a decision concerning the very foundations of your life. (The Lovers and The Emperor). Not that I am some wishy washy water sign, but only you can answer this question. Every time I ask the question the cards repeat that YOU have a decision to make. Why not ask for a sample to see if you like it? Have you spoken to your boyfriend about this?
