This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. I've been basically single for well over a year now, and I've made
some big changes in my life. Could there be love and great carreer oppurtunities in my future in the next 12 months?
A. I consulted the tarot for this one and wow yes! I see you getting your great
wish in a love relationship (sun with the 3 of cups)! I see problems (devil) that are obvious (and in being obvious it means you can overcome them...) in your job. Build your foundations in the next year and get Out there and search for your lady love. SHe is there somewhere waiting for you.
Q. oh exalted one!
> i want to chuck my 9to5 deadend, (but steady paycheck) j*o*b and pursue my dream career(s)-artist / musician / comedian...but i'm afraid of the boheme (aka starving artist)lifestyle.. are these pipe dreams? what's a girl to do? thanx for the insight!!
A. My practical Virgo on my second house of money shudders at your question... :) But then again, you are a leo sun sign, with mercury in leo so your very thought and being aches to perform. There is enough of the practical in you too - moon and mars in virgo (emotions and actions)so I doubt whether you will go too far afield in whatever you decide to do. That being said, is it possible for you to line up parttime work to pay the bills while you "boheme" around town? Cutting the risk so to speak?PS the tarot cards say that totally quitting your job to pursue your dreams is not a good idea now (Hanged Man and the Moon- not what you expect and will put you in a different rut). I say hedge your bets.
Q. I want to leave the college I am going to and transfer to either Atlanta or Mississippi...would either be a good idea, and if so, which one. Also, what about my friend in Atlanta...any chance for romance? Her birthday is November 25, 1980
A. The love card popped from the Tarot deck as I was thinking about your transfer to Atlanta. 'Nuf said about Atlanta and your girlfriend there! Mississippi also bodes well although it is a lot of work and I don't see any love cards there... yet. I'd choose Atlanta, but that's just for the love credits.You two have a lot of planets in common because your birthdays are so close. I would need each one's time and place of birth to ascertain the differences.
Q. I finished my relationship on Nov 5, 99 and would like to know if Amy Aug 7, 70 was the one? Or is the one for me still out there?
A. My heart goes out to everyone who suffers through a Saturn Return - heartache, heartbreak. The Saturn return is a 3 year period that comes around every 28 years or so (lasting from about age 27-30). We go through tormenting changes and want to make solid decisions but solid decisions seem to be out of our reach. It is a tempetuous time when nothing we do seems to last. However, since both of you are finishing your returns (2 at once - oh my!) clarity is setting in for you and it is very possible that if it is meant to be, it will be... as soon as she too finishes her return around August.Keeping an open mind, continue to date others, but stay in touch with her. Who knows, by the end of the summer, when she breaks through her haze, she may recognize what a great thing you two had and will come back. Gently let her know that the door is open... if it really is...PLease let me know what happens.
Q. I found myself falling for one of my best friends. When she found out (through others), she really didn't think much of it... she was kind of repulsed. But since of late, a month or so, she's been paying a lot more attention to me. She's been hanging around me a lot more, and I'm sure she's been flirting. Being her friend for eight years, I know how she flirts; and once a girl and I started going out, she found her phone number on my desk at work, and she was completely fuming. Since of late the girl and I called it quits, and she calmed down. My question is, I really want this to work out between Kayla (that's her name) and I, but I want to know if I should try anything or not. Will this work?
A. The tarot seems to say that this girl is in a state of suspension -maybe
deciding how she feels? To simply try something now does not seem well advised. I could be wrong, but that's what the tarot cards say. WHat is her birth info? Maybe we can see something there.But why not just ask her how she feels? Open discussions can reveal a lot and prevents speculation and bad decisions. Do you feel comfortable just talking about it with her?
Q. Will I ever find ture love, like my soull mate, thought I did once but it wasn't ...Anything you can tell me would be great..
A. Of course the answer is yes but you must get out there and look!You have moon in aquarius which can make you less passionate emotionally. You love all woman but to cement a relationship, concentrate on a particular one. You also have venus (planet of love) in virgo which means you can be somewhat restrained in displaying your emotions in love. Let your glorious Leo sun to shine in a relationship and don't be afraid of failing - with each step we become wiser and better able to build a strong partnership. Hope this helps.
Q. i consider myself a bisexual but really find that i am more emotionally attracted to women than men. i would like to be in a relationship with a woman, but am not sure if i am quite ready for the committment. what do you think?
A. Astrologically you are beginning your Saturn return which is a three year transitional period from about 27-30. It may be a time of great frustration as you feel that you have to make a decision but anything you decide is either not what you want or can prove disappointing. After the age of 30 , it will all become crystal clear.My suggestion - go with the flow, follow your heart and expect changes and more changes in the next 3 years. I get the feeling that with all your inutitive Scorpio energy and your Sag venus that you will definitely achieve the happiness you deserve.
Q. I'm interested in changing focus of my career. Will I be a successful? Any suggestions about which way I should go and when I should start? Also, how's my love life look?
A. It looks like you have Aquarius on the cusp of your 10th house of careere which leads me to believe that you would love a career that brings you into contact with new technology and many new people. And it would have to be something that helps people and "makes a difference" in the world. I don't know what you do now, but if you can add these elements into it, I believe that you will be much more satisfied and successful in your profession. The tarot cards show an interesting opportunity in love - keep your eyes open!... and don't forget to get Out there and look for her, if you are in the meet market.
Q. The situation: theres this hun that I love and feel a special bond with(6-8-80), Theres another hun..my gyrlfriend that i like very much(1-16-81) and my feelings grow for her everyday. Thing is the one that i love is going to the military, and thats why my last relationship ended, so i was skeptical of continuing to talk to her. Question: Did i do right by askin my gyrl to go with me?, and will me and the one i love still be friends or end up together? i appreciate whatever you can tell me..
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for five years, except for the 6 months we broke up in '99. She cheated on me and we called it off. Now we are back together can you tell me if she is being faithful? She is moving out and tells me it's because so she can go to college. Is that true, or is it us? She says she loves me and wants to be with me, but I have doubts.
A. It would help if you can send me your girlfriend's birthdata but according to the tarot cards I would say yes she is being fatihful - for the time being. Let's keep a watchful eye on this one.
Q. My partner and I have been living together for almost two years now. Yet, despite our wonderful relationship, we have a 19 year age difference between us (Her BD is 8/20/77 - 7:30PM). I'm okay with it most of the time, except when I'm ocassionally mistaken as her mother. What say your cards for us in the future years to come?
A. I have seen many successful May/December relationships (or in your case
May/August :))The cards say that there is lots of love between you (5 cups - very romantic!) and thoughts of love (Knight of cups). My question was, "Does this relationship have a long life span (10+ years) and the answer is yes. Go for it and enjoy!
Q. I am 25 and married. I have been attracted to women for years now but have never acted on it. I really feel like I am more lesbian than straight. Do you agree or do you think it's just a phase?
A. I don't believe in phases when it involves sexual attraction.You are about to enter your Saturn return (age 27-30) when you will go through many changes. I believe that the answer will come to you during this time. Prepare for a transformation which, when you turn 30, will make you happier and fulfilled.
Good luck in your personal journey.
Q. I have started to develop feelings for 2 of my friend, but the problem is they both have girlfriends... will anything happen between any of us (relationship/lover wise) or will I ever find someone I can call my own? A.B.'s B-day is June 30, 1981 and J.J.'s is March 1
A. The tarot cards say that you will find your own honey within six months to a year, but you have to get Out there and look for her!
Q. I have met this girl and we have so much fun together; however, she has a girlfriend that when we first met she said she was going to marry. Now that our relationship has grown she tells me that she wants to go out and meet more people. I am very attracted to her and I think she has feelings for me too. Do you think that we will be together anytime soon???
A. It would help if I knew your girlfriend's birth information however the tarot cards say that while there is great affection (Knight of Cups) there is also some discord (Knight of Swords). A decision has to be made on her part and she is preoccupied with other things.My advice: Keep on looking and if she is truly the one, she will come to you.
Q. will i find my special angel this year,to share my life with? will i buy a home this year? will i do well in own business this year?
A. Well the tarot reveals the following: 1. There is an angel in your future but you are in a rut and have to decide to get out there and look for her. Something is weighing you down. Shed this burden and be open to new things.2. Home - There may be transforming, dramatic changes in your outook to home buying this year. Whatever you decide to do, any change will be an improvement over what you have now.
3. BUsiness - expect to see movement this year and long term profitability.
With all of these things - you have to get motivated and take action. Don't sit idlely by. Good luck!
Q. I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bisexual. No one, neither guy or girl really gets me excited, what does this mean?
A. You have sun in Aquarius, moon probably in Sagittarius and venus in Pisces.
Aquarians are generally less passionate and Sages are dual in nature often not being able to commit to just one person. Venus, the planet of love in Pisces is probably also contributing to your nebulous state of mind and sense of confusion.Give yourself time and don't stress out over it. I know that you will discover who you are soon enough. Venus in Pisces are very very romantic - you're just waiting for the right girl! :) ....or boy? or both?
Q. I have a crush that might seem to be going places. Should I drop the
girl i'm sorta seeing now and focus on the crush? or might that be a bad move? (note me and the girl I'm sorta seeing now have never met and have a few issues we need to work out!)
A. Sorta seeing? Sounds to me like you are a free agent sister.You have sun and venus in flirtative and fickle Gemini, mercury in hopelessly romantic Cancer. With all this Gemini in your chart you could certainly handle two babes at once - especially if you haven't yet met your current girlfriend in person (?). And with your Mercury in Cancer, your mind is always fertile with romantic and delightful ideas.
Q. will i have sex tonight
A. My magic 8-Ball says "You can count on it" and who am I to argue?
Q. I have very passionate feelngs towards my friend, we are both 15 year old bisexual females. I was thinking about asking her out, but am afraid of rejection, and losing her friendship because of rejection. Anyway, my question is: Is asking her out the right thing to do?
A. The age old question; will sex spoil a beautiful friendship?The tarot cards indicate long term potential in the relationship (10 of pentacles) but nothing indicating that action should be taken now. Wait and go with your inner wisdom (the Hermit card) which will indicate the right time to make your move.
I also asked if your friend is sexually attracted to you and the cards indicate yes, but she has many important issues to deal with - I see that she must end something in her life in order to have a new beginning with you (10 of Swords). Is this true?
Q. i just recieved a letter in the mail from an x-grrl of mine. we had a
great relationship until a rather large bump in the road was hit. i was wonderring if we might possibly get together again in the future? her b-day is 1-24-83.
A. What type of letter? A love letter?The tarot cards says that this is unlikely (sorry...) She is in suspension because of a legal issue (Justice card).
She has sun and mercury in Aquarius and venus in Pisces. Aquarians are always testing the waters to see if they can get another sip from your well. They then have a tendency to disappear once their thirst is quaffed. (Do you get the idea that I know from experience...?) Venus in Pisces can also be wishy washy - are you sure that there isn't another girl on the side with her and it may not be going well so she is checking out past relationships?
Don't wait for her - if she comes to you, great, but seek the happiness you deserve with a woman ready for a committment.
Q. I came out last september, and started going out with someone I'd been good friends with for over 8 years. We broke up, but I still feel for her. she knows this, and I see no hope for reconcilliation. That is not my question though, my question is, do I have the hope of a new lurve ahed (preferably in the not too distant future)?
Q. Well I know I'm young and all but I've had two girlfriends already but, I haven't been seeing anyone for months when will I meet another girl that I can be with ?
A. Young and impatient are we? Well don't worry, girlfriend, the tarot cards say that, within the next six months you will have a choice of two (count 'em two) lovelies. One will be a woman with a good business head, the other a woman with a tough side to her. But with all of this, you must remember the saying "seek and ye shall find". DOn't sit at home expecting them to knock on the door. Get Out there and look - they are waiting for you. Enjoy!
Q. i am an aquarius(with gemini ascendant & moon)business owner who is in love with a taurus writer. after meeting a few months back she moved to my town to be with me. now, she has returned to her hometown because she says she misses her friends AND just doesn't have the energy for a relationship anymore. i know she still loves me and she says she doesn't know what's going to happen(meaning maybe she'll come back), but should i just let this one go, or hope that we reconnect sometime in the future?
A. As difficult as it may be, I think you have to cut this girl some slack. For one thing, Taureans (and I speak generally of sun sign bulls since I need her birth info before I can place her other planets such as venus for love) don't like change so the move itself must have been traumatic. ANother thing - like plants, they need constant watering, nurturing etc, something that a person with all your air signs may not be up to doing. (you even have venus, planet of love, in aquarius). ALso, there is a rush of planets in Taurus now - was 7 in early May, now six. and let's not forget the fixed eclipses in Jan/Feb which caused a few tremors in her too.Give her time, keep in touch, send her gifts, wine, flowers, shower her with attention and sex, sex,sex. I bet she comes trotting back.
