This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. My gf Claire and I have been arguing a lot over little things and I
really don't know if we can patch things up or not. I need your advice please
as I want us to make up but everyone else says we should break up, can you help
me?
A. Ever the optimist, I asked the tarot cards if you two can make up and proceed.
The cards say that maybe a temporary breather is appropriate. The 3 of swords
indicates a short separation - nothing necessarily permanent. It is flanked by
the 5 of cups indicating love and romance so I see this as a time to recharge
and re-appreciate each other. Don't let it go on for too long. Be ready to kiss
and make up.
Q. I have been having a lot of trouble finding a girlfriend, I want to
ask this girl out at my school but I'm not sure if I should. What should I do?
A. Well, the tarot cards are very optimistic about this particular female. I see an
unusual love interest (10 of cups), long term success (10 of pentacles) and a
love affair (6 of cups). So what are you waiting for???
Q. WELL, I'M BI- AND I HAVE THIS FRIEND THAT I'VE BEEN HANGING WITH THAT
IS REALLY ATTRACTIVE TO ME (08/29/80). I HEARD THAT SHE BI- BUT I CAN NEVER SEEM
TO TELL FOR SURE. SHE'S A REAL GOOD FRIEND AND I TRY NOT TO THINK OF HER IN
THAT WAY BUT I GUESS I CAN'T HELP IT. WE ARE BOTH SINGLE AND I DON'T THINK I
CAN PRETEND NOT TO BE INTERESTED FOR TOO MUCH LONGER. WHAT DO YOU THINK? LEAVE
IT ALONE OR COULD THERE BE SOMETHING BETWEEN THE TWO OF US?
A.Is she is or is she ain't?
Well the cards say give it a try - the Sun (your great wish!) popped out of the
deck for you. Approach her by going with your inner voice (The Priestess) and be
steady, clear and focused (Queen of pentacles).
Q. I live with (who I would call) my best friend. On random occassions
after drinking, she comes home and ends up in my bed "just to chat and snuggle".
This is extraordinarily fine with me! When she's in a good mood, and not drunk,
she's generally a touchy/feely/close kinda person (with me) yet when I
reciprocate, she tells me she isn't the touchy type. I like her more than I
think I could ever admit (especially to her) and would love it if she would wake
up tomorrow morning and tell me she feels exactly the same about me, as I do
about her. I wonder if she may be afraid to show how she really feels about me,
or whether or not some people are just generally touchy/feely people, yet still
wait for the hetero relationship to come along when a great same sex relationship
could be right under their nose!? Does she know how I feel about her, really??
Or will I have to continue living as though she's 'just my normal everyday
friend'?? It's hard living with someone I adore so much without them knowing a thing about my feelings! :(
A.The pain of it all. Well, I asked the tarot if this lady will ever be yours and
they say that there are too many problems associated with her (The Devil card)
but the problems are obvious ones - you can see them clearly and can therefore
over come them.But it takes two to tango and the real question is whether she has made up her
mind. Her decision will take time (Temperance) and you may not want to wait.
There also seems to be some legal issues here (Justice card) that you will have
to be cognizant of. (Leases?)
Anyway, you can continue as you are, waiting and hoping, or you can plow ahead
and seek a like-minded lass. Who knows? Your roommate may suddenly realize what
she is missing when you decide to look around.
Let me know how it goes!
Q. I've just met a fantastic woman I would like to be with, but she lives
an 1 1/2 away, and I'm too overwhelmed to be assertive. Do you see a new
relationship in the offing in the near future (now!)?
A. I absolutely see one coming up! (The Sun card)
But give it 6 months to two years for it to manifest.
Okay??
Q. Something is about to change and as you may know I am not always a big
fan of change though I do adjust well, should I flirt with fate or sit back and
waite - I HATE waiting.
A. Change eh? The Chariot card popped up to say that you will have to grab the
reins and ride to your success. But be very careful (The Moon) there is
something that you do not see - something that perhaps someone is keeping from
you. You may go through a period of stress about it to, but ultimately you will
succeed and triumph!
Q. I've just begun an online relationship with a great capricorn girl,
and I'm wondering where it's headed... love? Just friendship? Nowhere?
A. Well, the cards say that there is some potential here. I see a rebirth (The
Death card - very good card by the way...) notes of love (Ace of hearts) and
lots of correspondence (7 of wands). Clear up any legal issues so you can go
forward.
Q. A few years ago I had a relationship that had a strong psychic element
to it. The relationship itself was pretty awful. None of my needs were ever met
but this woman kept using the intuitive link we had and unlimited telephone
access to remain in contact. I don't have an ounce of trust left in this person
and hope I have now put myself out of her intuitive range. From time to time
readers describe someone who sounds a lot like her coming back into my life. I
feel I'm free and she is gone but dread another like her. What do you see???
A. The cards show a great deal of stressful sword cards indicating that this is
certainly on your mind. Do you gravitate to "wounded birds" (Queen of Wands)
who you love to nurture and heal? Maybe the first step is to figure out why you
would attract these manipulative types?The cards say that you need to begin to reassess (2 of wands) and apply yourself to the job (5 of pentacles) - perhaps to put your mind onto other, more
productive tracks.
Now, I am no psychic but I suspect that once you take your mind off of these
frightful scenarios, you will stumble onto the perfect womyn for you. Let me
know if I am right....
Q. I've been with my new girl (3/29/74) for about 3 months and we are
head over heels, madly, in the "forever" kind of love! Trouble is, I'm moving to
the West Coast next summer (where she eventually wants to end up) and she has a
promising job here in the Midwest. She's hinted at the possibility of coming
with me, which I would love, but I want to be supportive of her in her career,
too. I'm considering asking her to marry me because I can't imagine my life
without her. Would I be jumping the gun?
A. Should you ask her? The tarot cards say yes!
The Lovers card, along with the Knight of cups (romantic thoughts!) and the
Empress (fertility, love and sharing) are too much to ignore - and you shouldn't
ignore them!
Q. ARE KNEW 'VOYAGES' A GOOD IDEA FOR ME RIGHT NOW...i HAVE HAD A LONG
BREAK...BUT DO I STILL NEED TIME OUT? EVERYTHING FACTUAL AND BUSINESS WISE HAS
COME TOGETHER WE'LL AS PLANED WORK HAD PROVEN SUCCESSFUL...nO WORK HAS BEEN PUT
INTO MY "LOVE LIFE"...iS THAT THE WAY IT SHOULD STAY NOW OR IS THAT JUST HOW IT
WORKS?
A. The cards say that this should be a time of reflection and reassessment (8 of
pentacles). There are two people who are there to help you - a man and a woman -
but the best action is no action. Love life? You are pursuing someone who is not worth it right now. This womyn is
very different from you - either much older or younger or from a different
background. But things will shape up in early 2002.
Q. I have been seeing this girl on and off for about a month or so.
She's a Sagittarius sometimes I think she is keen and then she's not. Is it
worth keeping on trying for a relationship or should I move on?
A. Sagittarians - hard to lasso, hard to hold, but definitely worth the pursuit.
And the tarot cards say this gal has potential. The nine of cup is your wish
card, the Empress cards sends her love and fertility and the 10 of cups says
this is an unusual relationship.
Go for it.
Q. I have liked this gal for the longest time ever, but i know that
currently i'm not her type. Her birthdate is 26.08.1980. We're close friends. Is
there hope?
A. Well, yes and no.
The tarot cards say that it will take a while (6 months to 2 years and you will
be in suspension through that time (The Hanged Man with Temperance card). Yet I
see you getting your wish eventually (9 of cups) but ultimately, it may not be
worth the effort (The Moon) because you will have to give up something for this
(8 of swords).
My advice? Look for a woman who craves your type. I'm sure there are many.
Q. i have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. 05/12/1984
> and now for the past 6 months she does not want kiss me or any. the only time
she will is if likes a guy and he wants to see kiss. what should i do?
A. Performance art is not my thing. The tarot cards suggest that you take some time
off from her, maybe even closing the door so you can open up new doors of
opportunity someplace else (Ten of swords). It will be frustrating and sad (4 of
swords) but ultimately best for you (10 of pentacles). Be logical and think of
your needs. It will work out for you if you can take the step!
Q. I'm in love with my best friend who's straight. Thing is, every time I
stay over there we get together, she says i'm the only girl she would ever do it
with. I just want to know if there's a future between us or am i nothing more to
her than a friend to get with sometimes. her bday is 12/5/1983
A. Well, this womyn is a Sagittarius. (Nuf said) Sags are bold, beautiful and
friendly to all. They manage to handle a few lovers at a time and have trouble
settling down. In addition to her sag sun, she has moon in sag and venus (the
planet of love) in flirtatious, charming and breezy libra. Lovely to touch, hard
to hold.I'm sure very few, male or female, will be able to hold this babe's attention
for long. Why not just enjoy your time together in the heat of the moment and
look for a solid, steady, sensual Taurean lady for those loooong winter nights?
Q. I am very attracted to a straight woman (04/14/44) to whom I have
outed myself. She says we can never be more than friends, but does enjoy my
company (mostly online). We work together. Is there any chance I could show her
how good we could be together?
A. Well the cards are in a good mood today because they say that you shouldn't give
up hope. Perseverance and triumph (The Chariot) will follow a careful diplomatic
and "going with the flow" strategy (8 of wands). Stay focused on the prize (The
Magician).
Good luck!
Q. I know it's another love question; but I'm scared, confused and
unsure.
Frustrated, I prayed for a lover with certain attributes; that same night, it
seemed as though my prayer was heard and answered! There was a woman who I was
inexplicably drawn to. We have been together for five months now and I want to
marry her. She says she wants the same, yet I am more passionate than her,
which leads me to doubt her feelings. I am afraid of heartbreak, will you tell
me what you see? Her birthdate is 04/13/76. Thank You!
A. Ah. An astrology question!
She has sun and venus in robust, direct and not very subtle aries and moon in
diplomatic and airy libra. You have sun in sensual, passionate taurus, moon in flirty gemini and venus in
powerful aries.There are great connections between the two of you. Your moon (how you express
your emotions) and venus ( how you express your love) are in sync with her sun,
venus and moon. Yet, she has no earthy drive, like you have with your sun. It is
your placid, loyal, romantic sun in taurus that may be in a stir around all that
breezy air (libra) and platonic fire (aries). Relax - you have enough good
common sense (gemini) in you to understand that it is not what she says or does
but how both of you really feel about each other.
Q.As I tell anyone who asks, I've given up on the idea of a long-term
relationship. Secretly, though, I want one. I dream of a femme, but it's hard
finding one to date as I'm a femme myself. Is she out there? If not, are there
any relationships in my near future?
A. All is not impossible to a willing heart. The tarot cards say that you must put
out great effort (2 of pentacles), but she is there and will appreciate you for
who you are (4 of wands). Take a long trip somewhere that is a very new
experience for you (The WOrld) and you may find yourself putting down new
foundations with a certain lady(The Emperor).
