This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. I just want to know if there is some sunshine at the end of the tunnel? You see I'm pretty optimistic but lately I've been rather bitter and resentful. I haven't had the best few months lately. My high point is this wonderful woman I've met 6/11/66. Tell me is there light? Please.
A. The tarot cards say that it will take more than 6 months to feel in top form again but success is assured 6 months to 2 years down the road (The Chariot with the Temperance card) I see some disappointments now (The moon) and some changes (3 of swords) but good thoughts of love if you take action on them.Go get her and she will help you weather the storm.
Q. I feel extremely connected to this girl I know, a connection that goes deep down. Since I met her I've always felt their was a relationship in our future, but she seems to lead me on yet I think she is afaird of her sexuality. I am deeply in love with her and no one, even myself understands why I have such a deep connection to her. Past life maybe, but what do you see in our future (she is an aquarius).
A. I don't know her full date of birth so I can't see planetary connections but according to the tarot, there is great love connection between the two of you. I see though that it will take a great deal of work to get over her worry (Strength and 2 of swords) but nothing is impossible to a willing heart!!
Q. I've been away fromt the girl that I like all summer long, and for that reason we decided that it was better to wait to hook up. I'm going to be going home soon and I want to know what the chances of us getting together are.
A. The tarot cards seem to say that you will hook up but there is a lot of dreamy idealizing going on here and it may not last. If you can be practical who knows what can happen. Give it a try.
Q. Well, i recently met a girl who is a pisces(feb 22) and well we get along great. i feel like i'm falling in love. And we keep finding all these weird signs and "fortunes" speaking of each other being the loves of of our lives. Will it work between us?
A. The connection is not surprising - You have a load of planets in the earth signs of taurus and capricorn which are well aspected to a sun sign pisces so there is a great deal of attraction between the two of you. What is her birthdata? It would be interesting to see what her venus is in. Venus is how she expresses love.
Q. this isnt a question, this is just to say you were absolutely right in your prediction. i now have the joy of the glorious picean gf, and much love and lust. thank you for your advice, and well done you :)
A. Thank you so much for the feedback -I am so happy that it worked out. Keep that love and lust going and going!
Q. my lover born on 8/31/77 won't open up to me it's going on 8 month she wo'nt tell me how she feels about. i have tryied every thing what should i do?
A. The tarot cards indicate that there is some negative waiting time that you must wait out - you cannot rush things (9 of swords). You need to open up and talk about it (Page of wands) and may need some time apart (10 of swords). But deep down, you know the right thing to do - The Hermit card indicates that you have the answer within you.
Q. my girlfriend just broke up with me. she told me she just fell out of love with me she has someone else. the thing is we were together for a year and a half. we were getting a house built also. the girl she is with she does not know that well. moved her in and moved me out. i want to know if she is going to come back to me.
A. The tarot cards indicate that she is too much trouble - sorry to say. You feel hurt because there was security with her (3 of pentacles) but I see long term profitability with someone else (10 of pentacles). Keep your eyes open, girlfriend!
Q. I've been going out with this girl (08/29/86) on and off for about a year. Now she's got a new boyfriend, and I can tell she likes him a lot. I still love her and most likely always will. Do you think theres any chance that we'll get back together? Thanks
A. Well, I asked the tarot cards and they tell me that you should forget about her. She is simply not worth the effort (8 of pentacles). I see some positive changes around you (7 of cups) and you will open up new lines of communication with others. And I do see someone else - she has dark hair, a serious sort and very intense. Hmmmm.......
Q. I have stopped talking to one of my really good friends (Oct 23 77) because I was so hurt and angry when she started started seeing my ex, six days after we broke-up. We were both hurt by what was said and have stopped our friendship because of it. I want to know if she and I will work things out anytime soon. And if so who makes the frist move, and how ?
A. First off, is your name really "Pisces"? Secondly, I should point out that Pisces are hopeless romantics who idealize their girlfriends, sometimes undeservedly so. The tarot cards know! They say that she is too stressful for you (2 of swords) and may be deceptive (The moon). Yet I see thoughts and expressions of love once you let go of the old and allow the new into your life. Positive changes are afoot! The 7 of cups says so!
Q. Will my lover and I get back together? Her birth date is 10/2/55. We have been together for 8 years, no sex for the last 3 since her mother came to town. Will we get back together and resume sexual relations? Why did she stop when her mother came to live here? We even lived together briefly and still no sex. I miss her terribly and would really like to get back together and have a less hectic romance. She tends to be an obnoxious drunk and gets very abusive verbally.
A. Well here it is - and I am not especially thrilled about telling you this: The tarot cards say that despite all the problems between the two of you (and they are big problems - The Devil card popped up), if you want to get back together with her, you will (The Chariot card). But I strongly recommend that things have to change (The World) so that she gives you what you need and deserve. Don't settle for less than you deserve!
Q. As a 38yr old lesbian I can't seem to find a career that keeps my interest for very long, that is except for writing. I've written what I believe to be a very good lesbian romance novel and was wondering if it was ever going to get published?
A. I definitely see your book being published. It will take a while - there will be a great deal of negative waiting time that you simply cannot push along, but it will happen. Talk to people from your past. Some breakthroughs may occur there. I see improvement in business and a resolution of a legal issue. Let me know when it comes out!
Q. Since October 1998, I have had loss after loss. First the death of a kindred spirit,then the loss of my home and possessions in a house fire, then the death of my father... My partner (11/28/59) is recently unemployed and our 7-year relationship is threatened by poor health and STRESS... We're involved in legal hassles with an ex and former employer... Debt threatens to take our new home... Will there EVER be time for us to relax and enjoy ourselves again? How long will the nasty surprises keep cutting us off at the knees?
A. You have Pluto (the planet of volcanic changes) in Virgo which is being squared by transiting Pluto in Sag. I do see things getting better towards the end of the year. This is the time to tie up all loose ends and try to but a finish on the most stressful projects. Pluto is the mine sweeper of the zodiac. It detonates and changes the landscape. On the bright side, you may uncover new opportunities and new life directions when it is all over. Breathe in and out until Pluto fully moves on.
Q. I sent you a question months ago and was sent an e-mail over a month ago telling me my responce would be posted in the next 2 weeks. It hasn't been post as of yet. I was just wondering if I will be able to get my responce soon. I'm an Aries born 03-28-64 and my girfriend of 2 years is an Aries born 04-17-63. I don't remember what the question I asked you in the past was but I'm certain it had to do with the my relationship. I love this woman more then I've ever loved but I find it's hard to feel secure with someone that ends our relationship everytime we argue. This extreame is eating away at me everytime it happens. All I want is to feel secure and be able to feel comfortable and just when I start feeling that way it gets underminded by what appears to be a statement of shear brutality. I have asked he to stop hurting me like that but it doesn't stop. Thanks for your time.
A. Oh dear. Your answer was sent over but I don't know why it was not posted. My apologies. So let's check the tarot cards. It seems that a decision will have to be made (The Lovers card) and it will have to be agreed on by both of you (3 of wands). I see appreciation in the relationship but there are not a great deal of cups cards here (representing love). Your girlfrined has venus in pisces which is a placement that may expect too much in a relationship and when her exaggerated expectations are not met, she allows her tempermental aries sun to take over. It seems to me that a fuller discussion, perhaps with a therapist, may be in order for the two of you. Can this relationship be saved when she hurts you like that? Maybe she doesn't realize the impact she has. Talk it out.
Q. I've been fighting my sexuality for the last five years. I'm bi, but my parents are really homophobic. My mom has threatened to kill any of her kids if she ever found out we were anything other than heterosexual. I know she won't kill me, but I'm sure bodily harm will be involved. What do I do? I really want to find someone. I just turned 19 and have NEVER even been kissed! How is this all going to work out? I'm lonely and I know I really deserve someone, HELP! Thanks in advance.
A. Of course you deserve someone! I pulled six cards from the deck to see how you should handle this situation and the cards suggest that a burden will be lifted off your shoulders soon enough (Judgement). I see some endings so you can have new beginnings (10 of swords) and although there will be some stressful times (4 of swords) you will have inner peace (The High Priestess). Does that help?