This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. I currently have no gay or even gay friendly friends where I live... is this gonna change soon?
A. Oh dear! BUt never fear - the tarot cards say yes! The Chariot (success) indicates that you can achieve anything you set your mind to do. And the 4 of cups indicate that you will meet a wise and alluring lady (The High Priestess) in a surprising way. Go for it!
Q. I recently broke up with my girlfrend of nearly two months and it feels like i made the biggest mistake of my life. i can't stop thinking about her. the thing is she lives six hours away from me so thats why i broke it off, i wan't sure if we ever would have beenable to develope a very deep relationship. she is a taurus (29 april '72)
A. So I guess your question is whether you did make a mistake. The tarot cards practically popped out of the deck - news of love, from a great distance from an unusual love interest. Nuf said.
Q.I'm really crazy about this girl (i haven't felt this strong for someone in a LONG time) and she's tottally into me too. But she's still not over her ex-girlfriend and doesn't want me to feel second best, so we aren't together. we have so much fun together and i'm falling hard!! should i wait for her or move on.??? HELP!!
A. Well the tarot cards say the situation is promising (The Star). So what have you got to lose by giving the girl a little time?
Q. My best friend of 4 years and I ended our relationship rather badly after I told her I was in love with her. She vasillated between encouraging my fellings and disparaging them. I thought maybe it was because she wasn't queer, but she insists she likes girls (just never has had any experience with them)-- just not me. I'm interested in how you'd interpret our charts - she's born 8-18-79. We had an uncanny connection to each other from the beginning. Although I had to let go of someone who was so invalidating, my intuition can't shake the sense that somehow, when we're 50, we'll come together. Can you offer any insight?
A. you have sun (personality) in cancer, moon (emotions) in leo and venus (love) in gemini. She has sun and venus in leo and moon in cancer. SO her personality and the way she expresses her love connect to you emotionally and is compatible with the way you express your love. And, the way she expresses her emotions meshes well with your personality. Not bad! I would say that this relationship is not over, but since it takes more than astrological compatibility to make a match, I would continue to seek other partnerships. I do think she will eventually come around - but don't wait for her. If it is meant to be, it will be.
Q. Recently I've been having a lot of problems with my mother and being able to be social. I'm only able to see my friends which I can be normal with(acting lesbian and such) on rare occasions and my mother is getting in the way of this. She tries to keep me away from my friends as much as possible and it's really beginning to get to me. I was wondering if anything is likely to change in the future?
A. The tarot cards do indicate changes in the next six months - separations (3 of swords), dramatic changes (The Tower) and profitable changes (7 of pentacles) but it has to be your move (The Magician). But don't be reckless (6 of swords). Plan it out.
Q. There is this girl in my psych class. i have a crush on her and i think she likes me too. Will we ever get together in the future? How should i pursue her?
A. The tarot cards say that there will be an improvement in your soical life (5 of wands) but you will have to give up something to be with this particular girl (8 of swords). What can that be?
Q. I was just wondering if I would find anybody soon....
A. The tarot says that the great experience (The WOrld card) is there for the taking. Talk to people (Page of wands) and get busy looking (8 of cups). So what are you waiting for??
Q. My gf 11/03/1979 broke up with me, giving me a vague idea why... and i was wonderin if you had a clue as to why she broke up with me.
A. Looks to me from the tarot cards that there was negative waiting time - things she wanted to do but couldn't get done? An argument that had residue? Lot's of nit picky annoying things? ANy of this make sense?
Q. I'd love any advice you can offer in this crazy situation! I've met a girl that a I really really like (9/27/84), and as much as I hope that it might move beyond platonicness, I can't get the nerve up to talk with her about it. Also, I feel like one of my former "friends" might be sabotaging the situation. What's going on here? Thanks...
A. The cards are a bit vague about the possibilities with this woman. I actually see a man - a father figure or a mentor (King of Wands) and offering wisdom here (The Hermit). I also see a need to break free (The Fool) from some situation. I think you need to ask advice from this male advisor.
Q. I am in a relationship with a married woman, its our first lesbian relationship and I am so in love with her it hurts, but after 3 years she says that her feelings have changed and that she loves me as a friend.she does not even tell me that she loves me now but if ask her, she says that she does. What should I do?
A. Honey, you have to ask? She is married. Interestingly, according to the tarot cards, if you were to cut communication with her, it may just move her off her duff to get a separation (3 of swords) from her spouse. But she has to put out the energy (Magician) and break feee (The Fool). Cut it and see what happens....
Q. What are the chances of converting a straight (single) woman?
A. Sorry, you don't need an astrologer to tell you that genetics is genetics.
Q. I'm trying to choose a school. I have a career goal, but I can't seem to make it all jell. Which path should I take? Thanks
A. I think I will need a bit more information. I would check your chart to see what was on the cusp of your 10th house (career) and would need to know what your school choices are so I can make the best match for you. Please send me more details. Thanks.
Q. I moved to a new city, ok. Things are going horribly in the other way I predicted it and now I'm not sure if I stay here and try to live on or if I go back to my old city. could you help me out? do you see things getting better in this new city for me? Also, I was wondering if you could give me a clue in my love life because I'm beginning to think I won't find hapiness in love in this life.
A. I see great improvement in this new city - your wish (9 of cups) will come true, a good partnership (3 of cups) and you "get out from under" (Judgement). Hold on - I think life will get better and better!
Q. *sigh* Its been a long time since the last one..... Will I meet my next girlfriend at college this year? Or perhaps just a time frame for the next gal would be nice.
A. The tarot cards say there will be a bit of a delay - more than a year. But you will have great fun looking!!
Q. my gf (18/8/76) asked you a q recently (i'm the young picean). i love her to bits and don't want her to leave although i know she must to fulfill her dreams. can you tell me if there may be a time for us in the future?
A. Don't recall her question per sey - get sooooo many! But let me check the tarot cards for you - I see this as a productive union (Empress) with good luck in the future ( Wheel of Fortune) but some dramatic changes (Tower) requiring a decision that cannot be made easily (Hanged Man). Are you two in rut? Do something to bring the spark back.
Q. been with a girl for one month and i really dig her, she lives 6 hrs away from me though, she is 29 (29th april) and i am 18 (12th september), i really want this to work, but will be my REAL lesbian relationship.... what im asking is... will this last????
A. Your girlfriend is going through her Saturn Reutrn which is a three year period between the ages of 27-30. The Return is stressful, challenging, frustrating and all around not a good time to plant firm foundations. She is still searching for what is right for her and may emerge, at age 30, with an entirely different perspective on things. Read more about the Saturn Return at www.AccessNewAge.com. So where does this leave you, youngster? Let the good times roll, enjoy your time with her and don't expect anything right now. Give her at least one full year to get her feet back on the ground. The you can plan your future to your heart's content.
Q. please can you tell me if i am compatable with someone born on 01/06/1964 Dallas Texas many thanks for your help...
A. You have sun in libra, moon (emotions) in sag and venus (love) in passionate scorpio. Your lady (June 1, 1964??) has sun in gemini, moon in aquarius and venus in cancer. Your sun signs are compatible as well as your moon and venuses. Sun signs indicate general personality, moon is how we express our emotions and venus is how we express our love. There is a great deal of connection between the two of you. The only hitch is that you are going through your Saturn Return which is a three year period between ages 27-30 which is a time of chagne and reevaluation. Read more about the Return Phase at www.AccessNewAge.com/zscope to get more details. You may decide, at age 30, that you want a change. Maybe not. But who knows? This is a changeable time for you.
