This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. months ago i fell for this aries girl (April 8, 1983), but when i told her, she blew me away. fwd to now: she broke up with her gfriend, we've gone on a few fun dates, & had a great hot and heavy makeout session. but i'm worried that i'm not infatuated with her. she, a person who believes in polygomy, is in a long distance relationship with a guy. i'm not sure if i'm comfortable with this. am i loosing my mind? will things actually work out with this chica?
A. Do you want it to work out with this crazy girl? The tarot cards happen to say that you will meet someone from your past (The Pope card) who will take you to new worlds (The Fool) and new wonderful experiences. I'd say start looking and give it six months
Q. My life for the past 3 months have been HELL. Nothing is going right, everytime it seems like things are getting a little better another situation hits me on the head and knocks me out. I'm not meeting anyone new (when I actually have time or room in my head to think of any potential mates) and I'm very... VERY frustrated with life. WHAT'S GOING ON!!!! Please help me. I feel so dead inside.
A.Oh dear. Well I pulled six cards from the tarot deck and here is what I see - I see fear of being reckless, some mental stress, a decision that must be made, some dramatic changes and a rebirth and regeneration. All in that order. It seems like the decision will unblock the logjam. Do you know what decision you need to make??
Q. i am currently in a lot of pain.. pls help. my gf whom i love a lot, has just told me that " she doesn't want to give us a chance, not now" perhaps, i have not been as good to her as she has expected me to be, but i am vERY willing to work hard at it ! she still talks to/ emails me but i'm not sure if things will turn out ok. i do love her a lot a lot, could u please let me know if things will wk out for us?
A. The tarot cards say that there are many obvious problems here (The Devil card). They can be fixed but both must be willing to work on it. The situation is in suspension(The Hanged Man) and some action must take place before it can go forward. I do see improvements (% of swords) but it will take a while and lots of work. Good luck.
Q. My girlfriend left me back in december, She said she was no longer a lesbian. i believe she felt she would never see me again so she dumped me. When I try to get in contact with her she only talks for 10min. But she said I know your not intrested in me anymore but if you were I might conside it a compliment. What does all that mean?
A. What does it mean, indeed? These crazy gals - what is her birthdate anyway? I asked the cards if you would meet someone else within three months and guess what? The answer is a big YES! (The Sun card)You will get your wish! (9 of cups). So forget about her.
Q. Is my relationship is going to last? Right now I feel trapped between safe/comfortable places and new/exciting places?
A. The tarot cards say that you two will be successful (The Sun card) but only after you solve some obvious problems (The Devil). I say within the next two years. Congratulations!
Q. I need to know if things will get serious with the girl ive liked her b-day is 8/17/79 shes always only dated older girls or a younger just discovering her sexuality hottie whose just entered the picture
A.I asked the tarot if this hottie was in your future and the cards say probably not. But I do see someone else (Queen of Pentacles) - a practical woman who seems very promising indeed! (The Star). Keep on looking "tnc".
Q. I'm so love with a Lesbian capricorn woman ,1/2/63,and shes so afraid of love.I know she loves me,but she flees when she feels feelings for me. Will we ever be lovers.
A. Will you two get together? Well the tarot cards say that you can if you want it badly enough. I see struggle (Force card) the closing of one door inorder to open up another (10 swords) meaning old ties need to be broken before new ones can take place. But there are thought sof love (Knight of cups and Ace of Cups) so don't mind the extra work - it is worth it.
Q. Madam L please help!!! I am 37 yo. just come out....I am in serious need of attention .... The problem?? No prospects! Can you see someone for me... I got 37 years of passion bottled up in here and I NEED to pop my cork. Thanks, Dorothy from oz...stralia p.s Toto sends his love....
A. Dear Dot, Great news! That is the first big step. Now onto the tarot for your next big step - I see her in the cards. Give it 6mon-1 year. She is dark haired, from another country - you may meet her in your travels or she may be travelling to you (The World card). SHe is practical (maybe an earth sign or lots of earth in her chart) and is studying something. (& wands). Keep your eyes opened!!
Q. i've accepted that i'm not going to wake up one morning and be suddenly straight. too bad, since the only attention i seem to be attracting is the male kind (ick)! i've accepted my sexuality and truly love women, but i live in a small town where the chances of meeting someone are slim to none. i've placed ads in planetout and love@aol. will i meet an eligible and appealing lesbian anytime soon? will i have to date a man to have a lovelife?? help!
A. Let's hope that you don't have to resort to that! The tarot cards say that she is "out" there for you - she will be a rebirth for you (The Death card - a good card meaning a rebirth, actually). You two will meet in a surprising (4 cups) way if you do not have a fear of being reckless (6 swords). But there are problems (The Devil - ain't it always the case?) SHe may be married or in a relationship and will have to separate from her current partnership first. Patience!
Q. my current girl(b-day 04/19/76)makes me wonder. she says she wants to be w/ me but says she doesn't know if she can handle the "house on the prarie" life i live(i have a child). i have a sususpicion she bounces back w/ her x. am i right or do we look to be together.
A. Your current girlfriend has sun and venus in robust aries and moon in capricorn. Let me give you some insight here: She goes for it in love - she is the general, the pioneer the one who goes to the front lines to get who (what) she wants in love. Her moon in cap doesn't give her the greatest confidence in expressing her emotions and can make her more tactical than romantic and caring. Is she back with her "ex"? Not sure, but she may be pursuing territories as they become interesting. How interesting can you make your terrain?
Q. i just came out...wondering how i should go about hooking up with someone
A. Welcome to the tribe! There are many outlets to meet and greet from the internet to social organizations to classes etc. But from an astrological point of view, you have venus (the planet of love) in cancer which makes you sensitive, caring and mothering to your soulmate. Seek a woman who appreciates your warm care and who can infuse you with self confidence. Try earth or water signs.
Q. Ok well, i just got out of this devastating relationship. And im wondering if i date anyone now at this particular time, is it going to be worth it? Or should i wait for someone else to come along?
A. I think that you are asking whether you should get out there immediately and seek someone new or wait until someone comes along? The tarot cards practically popped out of the deck on this one - the 4 of wands, Temperance and the Page of Swords. I see this to mean that you need time (6 months to 2 years) to heal, you will be on your toes, maybe a bit cynical but you will find someone who appreciates you. Don't lose hope or crawl into your shell. But you can't rush out now and expect to find a relationship - you need time. Just do things that you enjoy doing and she will make her presence known in time.
Q. i just started going out with this girl and i like talking to her more then anything. i was just wondering will it become more then that? more then just saying i like you?
A. I pulled three cards out of the tarot deck to see what she is thinking about and the cards are - 10 swords (need to close a door inorder to open up a new door of opportunity somewhere else), King of Cups (a creative man) and The Star (hope of promise). So is she in a relationship with a man that she needs to unencumber herself from? I see promise between the two of you once she is free.
Q. how do i keep my lover from cheeting while im at work 9 hours a day
A. If you are in a relationship where you feel that you cannot trust your partner, you certainly don't need an astrologer. You need to talk to her and see why you have a lack of trust. A strong relationship works all the time, whether you two are in the same room or not.
