This Month's Questions;Each month, Madam Lichtenstein graciously answers those burning questions you've sent her. Consulting both your astrology chart and/or her Tarot cards, she uses her years of experience, common sense and innate talents to send you along on your journey well-equipped and well-informed. Here are this month's questions!
Q. Hello Mam I'm Lisa & I'm only 13 yrs old.I love this guy in my class & has been with me for only 2 years & it's just suddenly that I started liking him.He's also a Taurian & three days smaller than me but alot mature than me. He loves my best friend Isra(1/11/87). Mam, actully I haven't found the real me. Please tell me what type of girl I am Thank you.(e-mail me)
A. You are too young. Give yourself time to grow up as an individual and see who
you really are.
Q. Dear Madam: I have been with the most amazing woman for a year. We share a connection neither of us have experienced before. What are our chances for longevity?
A.You have sun (personality) in Scorpio, moon (how you express your emotions) in Capricorm and venus (love style) in Scorpio making you loyal, intense and passionate. She has sun in Virgo (great for both you Scorpio and Cap planets), moon in virgo and venus in virgo. She is a true blooded Virgo. You may want to read my book "HerScopes; A Guide to Astrology for Lesbians" to get the gist on Virgos. You two are very well matched. I see many happy years here!
Q. i am sick of being alone. the last time i dated a woman was more than 2 yeara ago, it's not like i'm looking for the love of my life right now, just a nice girl to share special times with, do you see me being single say for the next 6 months? if so will i ever find love???
A. The tarot cards indicate that the next six months will be a good time to get out there and look for her. You are afraid of being reckless (6 of swords) and overthink things. Make a decision (Lovers card) that you are ready to trust and love. ANd most importantly, make yourself available - get off Mount Olympus. Good luck
Q. I am in love with this wonderful girl. She is everything that i have ever wanted. But..heres the catch; She has a girlfriend. She keeps telling me that she wants to be with me. But her girlfriend has to leave her, cause she can't get out of the relationship. But..heres the other catch; Her girlfriend found out that we were folling around and she was gonna leave her, but she got really upset and told her girlfriend that she didn't want her to leave her. But..heres the thing. She keeps telling me these things..Wouldn't she want to leave her girlfriend for me? i am so confussed! help!
A. Oy - these confusing relationships! If I had your girlfriends birth information I could see if she is really flighty or just plain old loyal. That being said, let's check the tarot cards: Will you two be "an item" six months from now? Alas, the cards say no - too many problems here (The Devil Card). But these are obvious problems that can be solved if someone wanted to take a stand. There may be dramatic changes (The Tower) which will show some improvement (5 of wands) but she has a fear of being reckless (6 swords) that gums the works up. Sorry. But I suspect there is someone wonderful waiting for you right around the corner if you give her a chance....
Q. I have been through a rough 4yrs with the last two g/f's,who became very controlling and down right crazy!First was 8/18/60,2/2/45.And then the torture I put myself thru,trying to understand why some one you LOVE turns soo evil! I have 2 questions,please.First,there was a friend with whom I had fallen deeply for 3/18/60 and she had said she felt the same.I wonder if she and i will ever get together.If not,Or#2 is my soulmate out there? Thank you for any help you can give me!
A. Your Pisces gal can be promising but now is not a good time for a relationship with her. There is something that is not worth the effort here (8 of pentacles) and may result in some type of loss (8 of swords). The next six months may not be especially fruitful in a search but long term (in a year) I see great opportunity (10 of pentacles). It will happen as a surprise (4 of cups). Please don't give up hope - she is out there!
Q. Okay, this is not really a question, it's more of a comment really. I'm reading your response to a young woman going into her Saturn Return, and you tell her that it will end when she's 30. I've observed this obfuscation of the Saturn Return before so now I'm saying something. Go back to high school and learn your basic math skills-- Saturn's completes an orbit around the sun every 29.43 years, and it takes 2.3 "years" for Saturn to completely transit a sign (plus or minus a 1 or 2 months allowing for retrogrades and the average human's comprehension of astrophysics.) So, while you may want this chick's Saturn Return to be finished when she's 30, in reality she's just getting started. There are no shortcuts with Saturn. Don't mislead this poor womyn into believing that she can breeze through a couple of difficult months and then sail smoothly into ever after romance. If she's really going to "get it" (get it?)she'll be dealing with some serious challenges for the next two years and doesn't need bad advice from an "astrologer" that plays fairytale with her charts. And, yes I know this isn't a forum for Lickedstein feedback. But I wanted to make sure you were paying attention. An individual's Saturn Return can be very difficult, she deserves complete and accurate information before she begins making these decisions.
A.I'm always up for a full discussion. My first observation is that your Return must have been pretty snarly. Number two - nothing is very very precise because it is how the transiting Saturn relates to ones personal natal chart - not only the degree of Saturn but also any aspects to the chart from both the natal and transiting Saturn. Every one's chart is unique. The stress occurs as Saturn WAXES and not WANES through one's chart. Therefore it is the time LEADING UP TO the conjunction that is the classic SR. So I provide a rule of thumb which is the best anyone can do without examining the entire chart. BTW, I know of several cases where stressful issues dissipated within one month after the 30th birthday. Let's give this womyn some hope! And please - I welcome all comments - I love a good discussion!!!!
Q. I would like to know if I am going to find somone who loves me this year? Loves me in the romantic, lusty way??!?!
A. Oh yes. The cards say that within two years you will have great success in love (The Chariot and Knight of Cups). It will take some persverence and patience (Temperance card) and will be through your own efforts (2 pentacles). So what is holding you back?
Q. I've lived with my girlfriend (4-17-63) for a year and a half. After ten months the argueing started. I can handle a good arguement, I think it's healthy, but her temper seems to be more then I can handle. Our communication is poor to say the least. I try to talk and she just screams at me cutting off any sentance I start and throwing in hurtful statements. This is frustrating because I love her dearly. Sometimes I feel like I should just move on but I stop myself because of my strong love for her. I wanted her to be then one I would spend my life with. Can you please look and see what the cards tell you because I'm at a loss.
A. Your girlfriend has sun in aries, venus in pisces and mars in leo. While she loves very deeply and romantically (venus), she is a bnrash and bold woman who needs to be right and needs to be worshipped. You have sun in aries too but it is somewhat offset by a Libra moon which emotionally strives for balance, a venus in taurus which is steadfast and loyal and a mars in pisces which is compromising. It is up to you whether you can give her what she needs which may eclipse your needs on occasion. She can be very generous but demands a great amount of compromise for you.
Q. should I uproot from my country and move to america.my girlfriend lives there
A. You know, Marie, I wouldn't move, judging from the tarot cards. The situation is still evolving and needs more time. And I suspect a happy surprise is in store for you right where you are. (4 cups and the Wheel of Fortune). Wait.
Q. i've found the woman my every molecule KNOWS i'll share my life with...someday. now isn't good for either of us, as we're both in a period of emotional/spiritual/mental/etc. growth and cannot focus on a relationship. her b/d is 10/13/68. what i really want to know is if/when we'll get it together?
A. The tarot cards say between two and five years.
Q. Will i ever find love, or will i just be given the run-around? I'm only asking this because i have been rejected so many times.
A.Of course you will! The cards say it will be a lot of work (The Strength card) but a partnership is possible (3 of wands). Be patient and keep trying.
Q. i don't have a question about my relationship. i have been with the same wonderful woman for almost eight years.(1-17-73) We are blissfully happy. My question is more about my future. I am very up in the air right now. I have applied to a college that i desperately want to go to, but am unsure if this is the right thing for me. Am i pursuing the right major, sociology. Will i get in? I wonder if my partner are really ready to start trying to have a baby. I feel like i need some guidance on where to go next. We are planning on a major move in the next year, from one state to another, is this the right thing? My future seems very out of focus. I just turned 29 and was hoping for some guidence...
A.It sounds like you are experiencing a classic case of the Saturn Return blues. Check out my article on the SR phase at www.AccessNewAge.com to get more information. Things will begin to clear after your 30th birthday and you will know exactly what to do.
Q. My saturn return is finally over and I had been feeling great for a while, but now I feel blah again. Any feelings on what direction I should take now? Thanks!!
A.I do not have your am/pm in your time of birth nor your place of birth so I will look strictly at your planets and not at your entire chart: You have mercury and mars in virgo so your thoughts and actions are being squared by transiting Pluto. This transit will impact you for a while. You may experience transforming changes which will feel uncertain and unsettling. But do not get down about it. SOmetimes we need to tear down the old to build anew. You will see soon enough what needs to be done.
Q. I've been in a relationship now for 2.5 years. She is a Virgo 9/17/63 and very stressed. I came to this relationship with four children and she doesn't handle them well. We have two different philosophies on child rearing. She also is way too connected with her parents. They rule the roost. Is there any chance of working these differences out any time soon? I love her with all my heart but I keep being put on the bottom of any of her lists. I think honesty is most important yet she is not honest with herself. Is there any possibility of working through this? If not for committment at least for friendship.
A.You have sun in pisces, moon in aquarius and venus in aquarius. While your general personality (sun sign) is romantic, spiritual and otherworldly, your emotions are stictly down to earth with fixed Aquarius. Aquarius energy loves humanity, not necessarily a particular human so they can be considered somewhat cold and removed. Ask yourself if that is the vibe you are giving off with her. She is a triple virgo - sun, moon and venus. She is earthy and can be very sensual but can also play the martyr. Show her how much you appreciate her and she will return the favor tenfold.
Q. I'm madly in love with my girl kl. even though she is married to a wonderful boy [who is a leo], we both just feel this special bond and wonder how things would have been had we met earlier. I just wanted to know how meant for each other we really are. she is a capricorn. january 13th 1980 at, I think, 6am. i love her so and i know she really loves me too, although we will probably never be together like we dream because of fate. but i'd love to know our future together, and know how to make our friendship better and understand her more and where she's coming from. can you help me?
A.She is a capricorn with moon in scorpio and venus in aquarius. She can be very intense and committed to relationships, may doubt herself sometimes (capricorn), works hard, perhaps is a bit psychic and loves great causes. Help her build up her confidence, be totally honest with her and join her in her causes.
Q. am i going to get a gf in my new town?when?who?
A.Within 6 months I see some transforming and wonderful changes. Who? Look to find out!
Q. I have been liveing with my g/f she is a libra 10-5-68 for 2 years we have a child together we have had our share of problems will we last and are there any more children in our future than you
A.The tarot cards say it will last if you want it to (2 of pentacles) - it is your decision (The Lovers card). It is promising (The Star) and romantic (5 of cups). So there!
Q. madam, i am so tired of being poor and feeling like i'm making little progression career wise. is money coming my way? how bout career wise? am i in the right place? or should i go back to school and go a completely different direction?
A.I do see some problems with a woman (involving negative waiting time (9 of swords) but improvements in the next year if you get out there and network (page of wands). Think logically (2 of wands) and learn on your off time (7 wands) and you will succeed (7 pentacles).
Q. Am I wasting my time with my current crush? We have snoged in the pub and seem to get on well she finds me attractive and have kept incontact even though I have moved. She seems keen to be friends but often goes shy and quiet what shoul I enfer from this?
A.The cards say that she is thinking of new beginnings (with you?) and is also thinking about money issues. Maybe she is just shy? What is her birthdata?
Q. I have a girlfriend of a year and a month, and we are very much in love. Neither of us has ever felt this way before and I was wondering if I should ask her to marry me. The problem is, I don't know if any of her family would like that, and then there's the legal stuff. What to do?! Thanx. :)
A.This is always a nice question. The tarot says that there will be some delays (Temperance) but true love will prevail (5 of cups)!
Q. i got this crush online right... she is cancer (26th june '83) and i reallly like her and she says the feeling is mutual. but now there is this other girl, virgo (11th sep '74) i sort of like her too but feel that 17 yr old would be more for me. wadda u think?
A.Do you have to choose? It's all cyber anyway? Why not set up a meeting with each and see how it goes. You have sun in sagittarius and moon in aquarius. You can balance two at once until you decide. And with passionate venus in scorpio, you'll find love for both!
Q. ok.. i know im young, but well, i am with this girl and i love her to death, its long distance, but we knew each other (she had to move) i really love her, and we keep getting into lil squabbles over nothing, we both want it to last, and this is the first girl i have been with, and i want to know if we will be together for a long time like we intend to, cuz, at this point, nothing is going to tear us apart, (her birth date is 2/23/84), and we are hoping nothing ever will.
A.There has been a separation as you say (3 swords) not necessarily permanent but there nonetheless. Decisions will have to be made to keep it going - not impossible but it will require practical thinking (Page of pentacles).
Q. I'm about to leave to London (I live in Brazil) to start a completely new life away from my family and I'm worried about it. Does she see things working out in my future? Will I have sucess (I plan to start a college) in life in this new route (find true love maybe...)? I'd like details about my professional and love life, you know, if things will work out, if possible. Please pick me because I'm really concerned if I'm making the right move. Thanks.
A.The tarot cards say that it is very promising (The Star) but diminish your expectations until you really settle in (The moon). You will be extremely busy at work (8 of cups) and may feel like you have no time to yourself for a while (Hanged Man). Over time you should learn how to prioritze and things will begin to fall into place.
Q. All me and my girlfriend ever do is argue about petty things,what can I do to fix this?
A.The tarot cards first say that in order to fix things you both have to want to (2 of cups). If that is so, then go with your inner voice (The Priestess) and she will direct you. Also be prepared to work at it (The Magician) but true love will conquer all if both of you want it to.
